
Don't think of what's happening as a crash. It's just the hangover from a great party. You were looking at you account's value through beer goggles.
About the chart (for the engineers): the trend line was chosen so that prior to 1995, roughly as much was below it as above it. No reasonable trend line makes even 2002 look like a 20 year bargain. The chart is on a log scale, so consistent, growth, e.g 10% annually, would be a line. This is the least scary chart. Linear and logarithmic charts of the Dow following 1970 are a lot more depressing.
The shaded areas represent the following recessions: